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</html>";s:4:"text";s:14164:"Is there something going on?”, For example, if your employee forgot to file an important report, don’t heap on the blame and negative language; chances are, s/he already feels bad about forgetting. Arrogance is pride, and pride itself is not a negative notion. Need to be taken down a couple notches? There are 11 references cited in this article, which can be found at … This is particularly important if you are offering constructive criticism or sharing a negative feeling. If you feel any strain, stop what you're doing right away. Passive people might misinterpret assertiveness as rude because they are not used to speaking up for themselves. Ask questions and demonstrate an interest in what someone is saying. The “three-foot rule” applies in most public and office situations. It is also one means of keeping a workplace enthralled with you, but it can backfire. To create this article, 27 people, some anonymous, worked to edit and improve it over time. I admit it, i am anti social person, I can't get along with people easily, I wish I can become a sociable person who's gentle and kind with everyone, but I think i am so shy to talk to anyone, even my friends, but when I do talk to them, they often think I am arrogant. Rehearsing the situation will help you figure out how to approach the situation appropriately and may help alleviate anxiety. % of people told us that this article helped them. I don’t appreciate that you cut in line like that.”. Assertiveness communicates your needs in a way that is fair to both yourself and to others. Don't expect that everyone's going to ask. ", For example, if your colleague forgot a lunch date with you, don’t assume it’s because she doesn’t care. To create this article, 92 people, some anonymous, worked to edit and improve it over time. You have to be willing to speak up if you need help, or you have something to say. Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 372,509 times. wikiHow is a “wiki,” similar to Wikipedia, which means that many of our articles are co-written by multiple authors. If you're with five people, there could be five different opinions. [1] X Research source An assertive person is no… For example, in American culture the pervasive, hurtful stereotype of the "angry black woman" might encourage some to interpret any assertive communication by African American women as aggression. Don't expect for anyone to read your mind. Meet strangers and get to know about their world. It has to be a two-way thing. How to overcome the perception of being arrogant This will force you to pay more attention. 			References While they're talking, show you're listening by nodding your head and summarizing what they've said after they've finished talking. Try not to fidget. Thanks a lot! I am known to be quite arrogant and insufferable. That is incorrect. Then act like an adult afterwards. But if you're mature, assertive, honest, and don't suffer fools, that's something people will have a harder time finding fault with. Asking for help means that you're able to recognize there are other capable people in the world. Thanks, wikiHow! Once you stop viewing this personality trait as negative, stop butting heads with them, and learn how to deal with a … In this case, 87% of readers who voted found the article helpful, earning it our reader-approved status. wikiHow is where trusted research and expert knowledge come together. You can find many guided yoga routines online. When self-centered people lose, they go into disaster mode. 			References Practice basic listening skills along with eye contact. Condescending remarks. There are 30 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. Follow up on something that they've said, like "How did that make you feel?" You can also practice your assertive responses with these trusted individuals before putting them into play in the problem situation. Being late means nothing to them. wikiHow is a “wiki,” similar to Wikipedia, which means that many of our articles are co-written by multiple authors. ", "Excellent  article, I am an adult learning to be less self-centered. Only by seeing it realistically. Try to experience other cultures, if you can. Pushover parents reinforce negative behavior and don’t provide consequences for their children’s actions. They prefer to pull the wool over people’s eyes rather than own up to a mistake, they tell stories and point fingers to paper over their own cracks, and they are happy to dodge responsibility until it’s time to claim a victory. Just match what you get from the other end to avoid being misused in the name of being nice. Avoiding name-calling, swearing, and other inappropriate expressions, Recognizing others’ rights in communication, Using cooperative statements and seeking others’ opinions, An example of assertive behavior would be to tell the person who cut in front of you in line at the store in a calm voice, “I was next in line. Give her a chance. This article has been viewed 63,818 times. If you are experiencing any of these, you risk being rude to other people rather than making a genuine connection through assertive communication and active listening. Would you please fix this?”. An example of arrogant behavior would be to yell inappropriate names or language at the person who cut in line in front of you at the store. 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